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If your marriage is strong, even if all the circumstances in your life around you are filled with trouble and weakness, it won't matter.You will be able to move out into the world in strength.” ― “Both men and women today see marriage not as a way of creating character and community but as a way to reach personal life goals.The merciful commitment strengthens us to see the truth about ourselves and repent.The conviction and repentance moves us to cling to and rest in God's mercy and grace.” ― “...Truth without love is harshness; it gives us information but in such a way that we cannot really hear it.” ― “This principle - that your spouse should be capable of becoming your best friend - is a game changer when you address the question of compatibility in a prospective spouse.If you think of marriage largely in terms of erotic love, then compatibility means sexual chemistry and appeal.
This has also been called "commodification," a process by which social relationships are reduced to economic exchange relationships, and so the very idea of "covenant" is disappearing in our culture.
And, if you do that, as time goes on you will not only get through the dry spells, but they will become less frequent and deep, and you will become more constant in your feelings.
This is what can happen if you decide to love.” ― “Love without truth is sentimentality; it supports and affirms us but keeps us in denial about our flaws.
They are looking for a marriage partner who will 'fulfill their emotional, sexual, and spiritual desires.' And that creates an extreme idealism that in turn leads to a deep pessimism that you will ever find the right person to marry.” ― “Those dreaming of the perfect match are outnumbered by those who don't really want it at all, though perhaps they can't admit it.
After all, our culture makes individual freedom, autonomy and fulfillment the very highest values, and thoughtful people know deep down that any love relationship at all means the loss of all three.