Online dating married couples

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Like everyone else who has been married for long and swapped the sheen of romance for the disquiet of domesticity, I was terribly curious. While a lot has been said about modern-day dating apps, where women often accuse men of only wanting to jump into bed with them, one of the first things I realised was that sex was not the only thing on offer. Of course, there was the occasional, “What’s your size” kind of message, but most men on the app were feeling dissatisfied or lonely in their marriages. Sex was a byproduct, if things went beyond the confines of the app. A couple of days of talking on the app’s chat room.

And I needed the validation that I still had some chops left in me for intelligent and funny conversations, that I could churn a man’s feelings, that I could be desired. If we connected and felt that the other was not a freak, we moved to another chat interface, outside the app. Something that was completely absent in the customary two-minute conversations with my spouse about lunch, what the kid did in school, how we had to finish our pending errands over the weekend and other such exhilarating themes.

Just easy, breezy flirting, on an anonymous chat window. At such meetings at a pub or a restaurant, our conversations veered towards morality, marriage and the mundane.

They told me of other women they had met through the app. How a couple in a marriage — through years of love, conflict, comfort, raising children and wanting different things from life — begin to stop seeing each other. But it’s not easy, as human emotions cannot always be transactional.

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As more and more people are finding love online, it’s worth considering how the technology that brought them together might affect the course of their marital relationships. A mid-level professional, whom you would normally label as one leading the perfect life. A thorough professional who spends just the right amount of time in office so that you are not accused of compromising on your family life.I had been reading about Gleeden, a dating app for married people.Maybe he was lonelier in our marriage but had found a different way to cope with it, by drowning himself in work? Instead of fretting over it, I have chosen to accept the imperfectness of it all. In a society where extramarital affairs are a taboo, I see the generation of Baby Boomers, xennials and millennials like me realising the futility of the forever. Maybe it’s selfish, but what’s the point of feeding conflict and ending in an angry mess?Eventually, I did get involved with someone, taking it beyond just dinner and drinks. In return, I have decided to keep the count of happiness for myself constant. I have decided to twist my guilt and turn it into kindness and tolerance towards my spouse’s mistakes and general idiocy. Instead, if I find happiness, without disrupting life, isn’t that the wiser thing to do?

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