Any woman in a similar position would have read all of those signs in the same way. The first thing that I can think of is that he’s not some shy beta male who had a crush on you for ten years and was too embarrassed to make a move. Maybe more, but I don’t know too many men like that.I can’t think of many guys who will tell you you’re attractive and claim to fantasize about you, who aren’t at least somewhat interested in something more than friendship. Guys who are the way I was in high school — befriending all the pretty girls in hopes of getting close to them, only to discover that you’re in the friend zone. I’m guessing, Angelina, that your guy was in the top 75%.Men see women as just friends in four fundamental ways:1.He’s not attracted to you at all — which makes friendship really easy to maintain, without all the sexual tension of the “When Harry Met Sally” friendship.2.This is an arbitrary example but the point is you must be honest in your profile.Your entire experience on e Harmony will be based on how you answer these questions so you need to take this very seriously.I was wondering if you could explain how to avoid a situation like this in the future.
At the end of this section you will list three things which are most important to you.
Evan, I have a common problem that you’ve responded to lots of times: I fooled myself into thinking that my friend of 10 years had feelings for me, and when I mustered up the nerve to tell him, I was shot down. We talked almost every day, he told me I was hot, he told me that he fantasized about me, and we went traveling together. Now that I know my feelings are not returned, I’ve cut him out of my life so that I can move on and find someone who truly does love me.
I have to admit though, that this whole experience has left me scarred.
Things such as the need to be creative, how comfortable you are leading other people and how easily you get upset are all examples.
Here you rate what qualities are important to you in a partner.